What about both at the same time? Well, that’s apparently exactly what Ryan O’Neal managed to accomplish at the funeral for his late lover Farrah Fawcett.

In an effort to claim a permanent title of seriously mental sicko, Ryan O’Neal hit on daughter Tatum O’Neal right after watching the casket of his late supposed love Farrah Fawcett be put into a hearse during her funeral. Even worse, he admits it! “I was watching it drive away when a beautiful blonde woman comes up and embraces me,” Ryan told Vanity Fair. “I said to her, ‘You have a drink on you? You have a car?’”

To which the beautiful blonde responded, “Daddy, it’s me — Tatum!”

We think Ryan O’Neal had probably already consumed one too many drinks at the funeral if he had the idiocy to make a pass at his own offspring. Of course, O’Neal has spent so little time with his children that it really isn’t very surprising he doesn’t even know what they look like. Although O’Neal attempted to laugh the incident off as “just trying to be funny with a strange Swedish woman,” he is at least savvy enough to admit that hitting on his own daughter is “so sick.”

Meanwhile, Farrah Fawcett and Ryan O’Neal’s son Redmond, a convicted drug addict, claims his dad was “disgustingly transparent” in his gold-digging for Fawcett’s fortune. “Ryan thought he was going to get everything,” Redmond said told Vanity Fair.

In the end, Fawcett willed nearly every bit of her estate to Redmond, leaving not a penny to O’Neal.